There's always that select group of guys who would be proud to date a woman so much younger and brag about to all of his friends, lol, and of course there are guys who would prefer to date someone closer to their own age. People have already given your grief for describing yourself as a 26 year old boy and caring about the opinion of an anonymous bunch of dudes on OKCupid, so I'll spare you on that front. That's something I could have compromised on, but once I stopped being so afraid of the dynamic and spontaneity I actually wanted, I found it was a lot easier to spot it in someone, and pursue it. You haven't even asked her out. I am a year-old woman who has dated a couple year-old men recently. I don't know about you, but I've realized I can usually sense most things about my dynamic with someone by the end of our first date. It's not that I need a guy to be rich — I just need him to be about something, actively.
Well, if you're going to end up trying to turn her into your proxy-mom or vice-versa that could be a problem, but now that I think about it that is a dynamic that happens regardless of age
Everything You Need To Know About Dating A 30-Year-Old Man As A 20-Something Girl
Report Abuse. Ta da, problem solved. Because the article, if I'm thinking of the same one you are, was about how awesome women in their 30s are, and how dumb it is that guys don't tend to date older women. At 23 year old and worry that. My question is regardless of your concerns, how is anyone even going to know you are dating a 31 year old unless you tell them? Oh honey.